“Give your hearts, but not into each other’s keeping. For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts. And stand together, yet not too near together: For the pillars of the temple stand apart, And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other’s shadow.” – Khalil Gibran
In the journey of a sacred relationship may we encounter many facets. Just like a diamond are we fine-tuning, polishing, and sometimes going through immense pressure to become the highest expression of the diamond light.
It is not always easy – we go through times where we might doubt, through times where our shadow is propelled and expelled only to reveal a more true and refined reflection of our self.
Indeed, everyone wishes to be in a sacred relationship, yet if one is ready for it shall be revealed in due course of the relationship.
As it tests our being on all levels, brings up the raw emotions that have not been healed, shows us our shadow aspects of the ego construct.
Here is it important to remember – this too shall pass. When we go through these times of pressure, is it only to come out on the other side as the most beautiful diamond in union with our beloved and ultimately the true self that flows through us.
The times of challenges are experienced as suffering and intensity for the ego – yet are these gold for the soul. When we can realize that, we can take those moments of shadow and alchemize them into the light.
Of course, this does require practice and the right tools to do so. One thing that is a powerful practice is solitude & space from each other, celibacy > embracing each other as energetic vessels – no touching/hugging etc., vows of silence (Sundays) – thus dissolving all ego attachments to the other. So true energetic – soul connection – the love of God in another can naturally arise.
“Let there be spaces in your togetherness, And let the winds of the heavens dance between you.” – Khalil
Especially in these transformational times that we are going through as a collective – which ignites inner intensity – bringing our subconscious to the surface.c We must remember that the ego/ shadow self is not who we are – it is the programming, the collective unconscious, the voice of our parents… when we stop identifying with those triggers and emotions will it be much easier to allow those to flow.
As our true self was, is and always will be the divine light that navigates all that is from within the heart.
Every time the ego wants to play its game do we have the choice, over again to choose love. Even if we forget and play into the game is there always a new opportunity to choose love. As love is the underlying current behind the gross and illusional surface of the ego.
Every time we say yes to love and no to the construct of the ego, do we dissolve it further into the light, and do we make more space for love to express in our lives and for the miracles to be made manifest.
Keep remembering dear hearts, that together you can make it happen – by choosing love, from love, for love, in service to love.
Together you can remind each other why you are truly here and who you truly are, lifting each other continuously into the light, even in the dark times.
That is the gift within a true sacred relationship, where love over-lights all aspects of the illusional self. It is not for the limited love for another person only, but for the love that goes beyond, and extends out into the universe. As the purpose of a sacred relationship is to propel each other’s ascension and to serve the divine.
And for the ones on a solo journey, the same applies. Continue to choose the love over again and all shall be given.
Namaste Rose Hearts
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